Derp I have a predicament

BANHAMMER · Jul 25, 2014

So Dr. Nerdlove I have quite the predicament:

About four months ago I met this girl who happened to be a co-worker of mine, and after a series of unfortunate events (no infringement intended) we ended up dating. And we hit it off well. We spent almost every day together with her basically living with me at my then apartment for a month or so. We were both living in volatile situations with her being with an abusive Ex and me being with a shitty roommate, so after a month and a half we discussed getting an apartment together. We both agreed that it could be a good change of pace for us and started looking, but at around the same time things where I was living went really sour. So I ended up moving out and staying with various friends while she lived at her place. Anyways we continued apartment hunting and things started to change between us a little bit, but I thought it was nothing substantial, enough to cause any worry anyways.

So eventually at the end of may we found a beautiful apartment, and fell absolutely in love with it. We signed a 1 year lease. So we moved in and settled, and things were good for a bit. One thing I didn't mention up front is that she has a kid, which I didn't overly mind. The "baby-daddy" was around semi frequently and they had parted ways long ago so I thought I had nothing to worry about. (to which she assured me I didn't) They had always been friendly with each other and I didn't mind because I thought everything was going good, but she became distant after we moved in, and two weeks into moving she broke things off with me citing "she needed some space and couldn't handle a relationship".

But the twist is that she didn't need space because as soon as she broke up with me she moved baby daddy in (we live in a one bedroom) and couched me in the living room. They're together now, and have made it public they're an item. But honestly I don't know how to feel about everything, This guy I don't know is sleeping in the bedroom I help pay for and sleeping with her while I get to be upset, hurt and angry on the couch.

The worst part is this is someone I deeply cared for, and thought I could really build a future with (hence signing a year lease) But I was sorely mistaken, and now I don't know how good my judgement is for anything. I thought she was one of the best things to ever come into my life and now she's one of my biggest regrets. This is someone I told my deepest darkest secrets with, cried with when bad things happened, and talked to about anything. And now I feel extremely alone.

I'm in a really bad rut, and I feel like I'm about to break down, Dr. What do I do?

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Man, this is some crazy shit.

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